small print first: 

**We're not looking for single men, thanks.

**Discretion is very important to us.

**We only communicate together.

**All pictures on our profile are current and accurate representations of what we look like IRL

Edit Nov 2025: We are updating our pictures and currently all are from 2025.

**We don't always respond to messages quickly, but we will get back to you if we are interested.

Thanks for reading! On to the good stuff:

We're a friendly, fitness-oriented couple in our very early 50's. We'd like to connect with couples or with women who are into both of us. We're not good with extended chats or picture sharing online, so if this is your thing we probably aren't for you. We're much more interested in connecting in person and can usually make time for a vanilla, no-pressure, IRL date to see if we're a match. We've found that meeting in person is the best way to gauge mutual attraction, instead of just sharing face pics.

We play together and in the same room. Recently, she has been embracing her bi-side and really enjoys playing with other enthusiastic women. He is straight but not uptight about it. Our preference is to play as a group rather than just swap partners and for everyone to be as involved in the action as they would like to be. We do have our own turn-ons and we're interested in hearing about yours because something new is always fun!

We'd love to hear from you if you think we might be a match, but please only get in touch if you're open to an in person meeting relatively soon. We're here to make connections and the more local you are the more likely we're going to be able to make it work. And guys,... please checked with your partner to see if she is also interested in meeting us before you send us a message.

Because we've been asked this question a lot: erotic photography has been our hobby for a long time and we do take all of our own pictures. We've only posted a very small sampling here and if you're just here for the pics you can find Russ's photography on blue sky or fet life, but you'll have to search because we can't post the user names here.

Thanks for looking,

R&L