We felt comfortable with this couple and decided to try swap in different rooms. The vibe was there, we had met socially a few times and the other guy wasn't pushy. I high-fived my wife and off we went, they headed for the master bedroom and we went to the guest room.
The first thing was to ask her why the separate room? What kind of experience did she want over the next hour or so? At first she it was a lame answer, "something I always wanted to try" but I kept asking for a little more specifics. Finally she sheepishly said she wanted to act a little sluttier and was embarrassed about it in front of her husband. "Sluttier in what way? like dirty talk, like being more assertive or dominant? make demands?". We talked about how a successful swap means fessing up to what you really want to do and then communicating it. I could see this was getting her turned on. Turns out, she didn't feel comfortable asking for what she need to climax. So we talked about that for a while and it became clear that she wanted the lights on and be able to watch me eat her.
After that mission was successful, it was her turn. Within a minute it was obvious this was going to be one of the most disappointing blowjobs ever. It seems that is a group of swingers that married early and didn't have the benefit of lots of varied sex practice before settling down with one partner. So I stopped her and said I need her to do something different. I then made up a story about a girl I knew in high school who was the ultimate blowjob queen and it's my fantasy to relive that. From there I explained lots of spit, lots of slow hand motion, lips and tongue all over the frenulum and don't be afraid to finger yourself while you do all this. It's ok to put your pussy wet finger in my mouth. Thankfully she took up the challenge and carried it out with a lot of "like this?", "how about this?" Lastly, I told her you have to tell me where, boobs, body, face, do you want to watch me finish? what's the end look like for you? Thankfully a little communication turned into one of the most fun blowjobs ever as she presented her boobs for the finish.
After meeting back up in the living room, we talked about the whole experience and went for another round, this time all together.
Then I got a text a couple of days later. it was the other husband. "holy shit - wow. that's all I'll say but wow. Thanks!"