• Be truthful and honest.
  • Talk to your partner; let them know your feelings.
  • Be yourself.
  • Decide what your needs are, your interests and desires.
  • Tell other people what your needs, interests and desires are.
  • Use Protection.
  • Be willing to try new things... within your limits.
  • Move at your own pace & Don't be rushed by other people.
  • Respond even if it's to say 'no thanks'.
  • Research.
  • Have Fun.


  • Don't be rude.
  • Don't be vague about your desires.
  • Don't Lie.
  • Don't cross other people's limits.
  • Don't Cheat!!
  • Don't give out personal information until you're very comfortable with others.