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Stay together as much as you feel you need to, but don't hold onto one another like your life depended on it, or seem clingy, as this will make it more difficult for other couples to approach you.

As time goes on at the party there may be general 'disrobing'. Only go as far as you want to and feel comfortable with. You will be accepted if you chose to remain fully clothed, although it is recommended that you try to include your self as much as possible, changing into something more revealing will help others include you and make you feel more involved.

Don't worry about asking your hosts or other guests questions, swingers are generally interested in meeting new people, and will help explain the lifestyle as much as possible.

If there is a hot tub or spa for instance, try to use it, being nude, close to other people with a valid reason will help you make new friends.

Try as hard as you can to leave your inhibitions at home, both sexual and social. These can interfere with your swinging pleasure, you can't expect to get much out of a swingers party if your not prepared to put much in.

Don't pretend to be someone else, be friendly and good natured. A warm smile has a positive effect on every body.

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